Getting to the 3rd floor is a milestone and a big deal for many people, and one you should not arrive unprepared for. A lot of people say that your life as a woman changes once you hit 30. Some say it is difficult; others say that your thirties are like your twenties, but with money. Your 20s are a time of self-discovery, adventure, and growth. But with so many things to juggle (career, relationships, finances), it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. So, how do you make the most of this transformative decade?
This article will break down 10 key experiences and accomplishments every woman should prioritize before turning 30 and tips for achieving them.
Financial independence is a huge part of your life; the earlier you manage it, the better. Learn to save, invest, and budget to set yourself up for a secure future. Imagine having your finances figured out; moving into your thirties with that knowledge is a game-changer. Financial freedom means having choices, and your 30s will thank you for the groundwork you lay now.
Pro Tip: You can start with a simple budgeting app to build an emergency fund of at least three months’ expenses. Also, it’s necessary to set up a meeting with reliable stockbrokers in order to make wise investments for long-term financial stability. (Yes! It is that serious.)
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Nothing beats navigating a new city on your own to boost confidence and self-discovery. When you travel solo, you will learn independence. Plus, it’s an incredible way to meet new people and make lifelong memories.
Aside from this, it forces you to rely on yourself in the best way. You don’t have to travel across the continent. Simply go over to the next city and choose some easy-to-navigate spots to take that time off.
People-pleasing is one habit that should die in your 20s. Your time and energy are valuable. Damon Zahariades, in “The Art Of Saying No,” reminds us that saying no isn’t rejection; it’s self-respect. It involves prioritizing your needs and boundaries without feeling guilty. Bear in mind that setting boundaries isn’t selfish but necessary. Learning to say “no” without guilt will protect your mental health and help you prioritize what truly matters. Whether it’s a social event, work obligation, or relationship, if it doesn’t serve you, it’s okay to decline.
Friendships and relationships shape our lives. They affect how we see ourselves and how we see the world. Before 30, it’s important to let go of connections that drain you and invest in the ones that uplift you.
Not everyone is meant to stay in your life forever. If a friendship, relationship, or even family is draining your energy, creating stress, or making you doubt yourself, it’s time to walk away. Remember, letting go isn’t easy, but prioritizing your mental and emotional well-being is always worth it.
Whether it’s public speaking, coding, or negotiation skills, learning something new can give you an edge professionally and open unexpected doors. You never know where opportunities will lie waiting for you. Bonus points if it is something you enjoy doing – it won’t even feel like hard work. You can take online courses, attend workshops, or find a mentor to help you grow professionally.
Life does not revolve only around work and bills. Not everything has to be about productivity. Having a personal passion, like painting, hiking, or writing, will bring you joy outside of work and obligations.
The wonderful thing about hobbies is that there are no expectations. You get to keep trying until you find one that suits you just fine. Additionally, hobbies help reduce stress, improve mental health, and add more fun to your life. The world is your playground, so go crazy with it.
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Healing is a lifelong journey, but self-pity can only go so far. Learning to let go of past mistakes and forgive yourself is a powerful step toward self-growth. Plus, having that understanding of forgiveness towards yourself is an esteem boost that will come in handy.
Letting go doesn’t mean you’re pretending it didn’t happen; it means you’re choosing not to let your past hold power over the woman you’re becoming at 30. We’ve all made choices we’re not proud of, but those experiences shape your strength, your empathy, and your fire. You don’t have to carry the shame forever. Give yourself grace. The same way you’d hype up your closest friend, be that gentle and loving with yourself too. That’s where true healing begins.
Before you cross 30, a woman should know your health status and all it entails. Prioritizing health in your 30s involves adopting healthy habits to prevent future health issues and maintain well-being. There should not be room for delayed health problems because underlying issues only get worse with time.
Whether it’s therapy, exercising, journaling, skincare (wear your sunscreen!), or healthy eating. Taking care of yourself now will make your future self stronger and more resilient. Most importantly, set routine appointments with your doctor, stick to them, and sleep more.
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Honestly, you have one lifetime to experience your twenties, so make the most of it while preparing for your game changing 30s. Do those things you’ve always wanted to do: face that fear, go to that concert, eat at that restaurant alone, and watch the sunrise. No one said you can not do all these things at 30 as a woman, but if you make a habit of stepping out of your comfort zone now, imagine how unstoppable you will be by then. Even if it doesn’t work out perfectly, you’ll never regret going for it. Growth happens outside your comfort zone.
There will always be societal expectations, but you have only one life, and no one should define it. Society will tell you what success “should” look like, but your life is yours alone to design. So, invest in your network. Get clear on what truly fulfills you and go after it unapologetically.
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As a woman, turning 30 doesn’t mean your life is over or that you are a failure. These are just outdated expectations that should not bother you. It isn’t about figuring it all out; it’s about feeling empowered in who you are and where you’re headed. Additionally, there will be life lessons when you cross 30.
Each new year is a blessing and one you should enjoy. Aging is an amazing process. Start checking off this list today, and embrace your journey with confidence.